Boyfriend loves listening to me having sex with other guys
We are fairly new at the swinging/ open relationship thing and have been with 2 couples, also ffm mfm and partners on side, we follow all our rules and have really enjoyed everything so far.
During one of our mfm my bf stepped out for a few min for a smoke and told me to continue, afterwards he said was the hottest thing ever just hearing us, and he would love to just do that next time than me and him have sex afterwards.
I’m fine with it and I understand, because same thing happened to me during one of our full swap evenings kind of, I had a bit to much to drink so I went downstairs for a breather and some water, I could hear them up stairs , and hearing him and her moaning turned me on so much.
We had planned a mfm tonight but he thinks he just wants to listen, not sure how that will work from the beginning, we informed the other guy and he’s cool with it .
Anyone else like these things?
minnired80: Same thing with my wife, she enjoys and even gets to cum just from sitting in living room while me and another woman are having fun. To her she says it’s a joy and pleasure to know another woman is enjoying what she can have every night.
Theif-in-the-Night: (M) currently I am the toy in a regular threesome thing that is BGB. The boy friend likes to step kind of out of sight sometimes while I continue to screw her. When I cum in her he likes to fuck her right after.
Personally, I had a similar situation with a recent girlfriend. She would date other guys and clandestinely film it, (or call me and leave the phone on the night stand). I would be waiting in the parking lot. After they were done I would literally walk past the guy on his way out and my way up… then I would bang her like nobodies business. Its kind of a “slut fantasy” or something.
Bottom line is, if it turns you on keep doing it.
edit: Question for you though…. I’m always worried that I will make him jealous… the guy in my current thruple thing. When I have sex I cant remove the sensuality. Its just who I am. All the eye contact and the slow stuff and the caressing shit… its what I do… its me, but I catch myself thinking… crap am I making love to this girl in front of her boyfriend? Ive asked him about it and hes totally cool with it… as is she. How is your situation? Is it Bongo all the time or is there a lot of sensual shit with the not-boyfriend partner?
Cjc09: Am I the only person who doesn’t know an open couple looking for a third sex partner?
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PlaysAprtStaysTgethr: I love seeing hearing… even smelling and tasking my wife with other people. I have had problems getting it up in some of our group interactions, so I got to watch her alot. Seeing a woman flourish in her sexuality is amazing, especially when you have a deep connection with her. Its like seeing another side of someone you thought you knew completely, and knowing that side will come back to you.
Having her be free to expirience the range of sexual possibilities is the most erotic thing in the world to me.
mikecg2: Yes, one of my roommates fucked his gf last night before he went to work and it was kinda hot to hear them fuck. Ive been with her so it was like i know what hes doing to her. Saw her after he went to work, i was like that sounded hot. U enjoyed that didnt u?
n0mad26: Not sure how I would feel about this, I’ve been with my wife for 14 years married and 18+ together, and want to expand into some new things. This might be an avenue I’d be interested in, but I doubt she would
Coidzor: >We had planned a mfm tonight but he thinks he just wants to listen, not sure how that will work from the beginning
You guys need to work on being consistent and upfront, then. Offering one thing and then saying it’s actually something different once the other person arrives isn’t good manners, to say the least.
You should also generally figure out how things are going to go down in advance as much as is possible.
If he wants cuckolding degradation or hotwifing overheard from the other room, you guys need to hash that out and go after that explicitly, not claim you want threesomes and then seem to partially chicken out of it or bait and switch.
Chocobomuffin: My bf has invited other guys over and just sat back watching me with them. He loves it!!
Curiouscplstl: I think it would be very sexy to hear/see my wife with another man or woman in passion. So far it’s just a fantasy, but one can dream…