I (f28) am considering fucking this cute guy.. problem? he’s only 21. Would it be wrong?
So there is this really cute guy working at this coffee shop I sometimes go to and we seem to have some insane sexual chemistry…
I always get told I look very young… People often guess between 16 and 20… First conversation with this guy he guessed me to be 19.. He is 21. He knows I’m 28 and that didn’t seem to lessen his interest.
He is incredibly cute but I can’t help but shake the feeling that he might be too young? Maybe I only feel this way because he is younger than my brother? Which makes it weird.
Now I know that mentally we likely wont have much in common, and I’m not looking for a relationship with him.. but I sure do wanna have some fun with him. Would it be wrong? What would be the best way to approach this? I’m fairly sure he wants to bang me.
I feel so embarrassed to say this.. but the last time I was in the shop he was there and just by him winking at me.. I turned into a giggly school girl, he got my knees weak just by doing that. I left the shop thinking “What is wrong with me?”.
Would it be best not to do anything with this young guy at all? If I do, any tips for me? I want it to be a good experience for both of us.
mr_jay86: If he is into it and you are into it and you are both honest about age and everything I don’t see it being a problem.
He is a lucky 21 year old!
pm_sexy_undies_shots: Why would it be wrong? You’re both consenting adults. Fuck his brains out.
SlouchyCouchKiller: He’s an adult. You’re an adult. There’s nothing super weird about hooking up with him. I have a fwb who is 23, I’m 29, and while I wouldn’t date him because we’re in different stages of life he’s decent in bed and I enjoy sleeping with him.
No tips, sex with a younger guy is much the same as with a guy my age, except they may be a little less experienced. Just have fun!
ReliableSource: Forget the legality of it, because he’s been legal for years. If you use the “half your age plus seven” rule, he’s still within the socially acceptable limit. Go fuck this guy
sandybeachclam: 47 F have slept with guys younger than that. No worries girl
beccamoo518: Go for it. Sex with younger guys is hot. They usually in my experience just want to fuck. The younger guys ive got with they just want to have sex, nsa. U can teach him too, its fun knowing a guy alot younger just wants to fuck ur brains out. Do it, ull like it.
alittlebirdy1: You’re both consenting adults. There is no issue here.
Mayakitkat: I’m 33F and have been in a relationship with a 25M for over a year. Sex and everything else are just fantastic. Don’t judge maturity by age. You might be pleasantly surprised.
GrumpyBearBank: He is 21. It is fine.
mikecg2: Im 21, and ive got with a 35 yr old over the summer. Dont know if it could work on a relationship with level but for me it was just sex. I loved it and she loved it. It was kinda a secret that we were fucking which made it even better. We shouldnt have been having sex. Maybe thats a turn on for u, in ur mind hes so much younger, hes over 18 so go for it. Have sex with him. He’ll enjoy it, u’ll enjoy it. Just maybe keep it at sex, nothing more.
Aconite_Eagle: Absolutely no problem! You’re both in your twenties and you look young anyway? I cant see a problem. Fuck his brains out girl.
itsjustmeandthedog: It’s not like you’re marrying the guy. Go fuck his brains out already! lol.
Mr_Spaz: He makes it past the “half your age plus 7” cutoff, for what that’s worth.
lagerbaer: 28 / 2 = 14
14 + 7 = 21.
The math checks out, you’re good.
JCOII: Male here. When I was 21-22 I was sleeping with 30-31 year old woman. She absolutely loved it and quickly got over the age difference. I was young had plenty of energy and I ate her p*ssy every single time we hooked up. I had no kids, no real career yet, no drama. I was something simple in her otherwise complicated life. She was able to unwind with me and not worry about shit. And I didn’t care about her career issues. I cared about 1 thing and 1 thing only. Fucking her brains out. Go for it, chances are you’ll have a good time.
scooptastic: He is 21, so he is an adult, even though he seems young to you. If you are just wanting to have fun with him, he is plenty old enough for that. And you never know, he could be very mature. Young does not always equal not mature. And keep in mind that even though you feel way older than him, since you are in your 20s too alot of people would label both of you as kids. Don’t think about it so much, just have fun!
Cassius1759: Will say jump on that D girl…..and have fun..:)
laxing22: Over 21 and you’re only 28, I don’t think that is a big deal. Women seem to put more on age gaps. Especially going younger. I don’t think anyone would think anything of a 28yo guy hooking up with a 21yo girl. I don’t see why you should worry either.
blokedog: No. Go for it!
TheFrayneTrain: if you two are on the same page then why not fuck him? he is legal so idk whats the problem
ChaosKilledDinos94: I don’t think it’s weird at all and could be fun!
eelsaremyfavourite: Nah, do it. I slept with someone quite a bit younger than me and it was awesome. I still miss him sometimes.
ScorpioLoverboy: Go ride that young buck.
k-lear: What are you waiting for, bang his butt out, man.
freecel2345: Throw the ( your_age/2 + 7 years ) rule away, it’s stupid. 18 is good to go, and that goes for everyone from 18 to 130 years old.
rawbface: Half your age is 14, plus 7 is 21.
HairyBallsOfTheGods: I think you should do it especially if you guys have a good chemistry so far and you’re interested in it, maybe make the first move and see if he’s interested in it. I was 22 and working at a coffee shop, funnily enough, and his woman came in and we ended up having amazing sex together. It was incredible! I ended up moving in with her, for about 8 months. unfortunately we did break up, I wasn’t ready to be in as committed of a relationship with her as she wanted, but we did talk about that beforehand so we left on really good terms. I still see her, and sleep with her occasionally. Her and I had a 14 year age difference though, you guys are only 7 years! Regardless though, age doesn’t really mean that much when two people can connect with each other
DoubleLifeGirl: Give it to him already!
skiptomyloohoo: Not wrong.
–DarkValkyrie–: As long as he is an adult by state and federal laws, then it is fine in my opinion. When you start looking for a true relationship, though, you might attract the wrong kind of men at first if they know about this…because you’ll most likely be classified as a “friend with benefit” rather than someone to invest one’s future and emotion with.