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How do you [dirty talk]?
well, this sounds kind of obvious, but there are so many questions on how do you start to “talk durty” to your partner. How do you discover they like it? What is permitted and what crosses the line? What things can enhance it? Stuff like that. Please share your experiences. Thanks!
roborbbrobor: Start low key. Don’t stop, you feel so good, more. Just start a dialogue during sex and gauge how they respond. As you’re getting close to orgasm, start getting a little dirtier. I’m not sure if you’re male or female or I’d have more input.
Asunafag: Ask them. Open and honest communication it’s the key don’t tell them you’re gonna do it but ask what turns them on then basically write them a sexy story based on their fantasies
Anotherside714: Talk to your partner about this kind of stuff. Ask about their likes/dislikes.
A simple “you like that” and “that feels so good” can go a surprisingly long way too.
Hail-and-well-met: My SO and I were virgins when we first banged so we had to start from square one with this stuff.
Definitely talk about it before hand, even if the result ends up being “I don’t know.” Start mild. What turns you on about what they are doing when you have sex? For example “I love your body” is simple and gets the point across. “I love it when you ___” is another one.
We’ve been together for a little over a year and have started figuring out more specific things to say. My SO likes to be a bit more submissive so I’ll say more teasing stuff. It takes time, but eventually you’ll get the hang of it.
PlaysAprtStaysTgethr: Explain in detail what arouses you. Bodyparts, actions, degrees of roughness. Say what you want, and be graphic, explain how much you want it and need it, and how,spesifically, aroused it makes you.
Ask what your parter wants to do to you, or to x body part, what they want you to do. As arousal builds, go with instinct. Very few people are opposed to instructions: harder faster, suck x, eat x, etc.
ScorpioLoverboy: It’s not something I discuss beforehand. I just say what comes to mind in the moment. It’s always something complimentary, either about their body, how beautiful they are, or how good something they’re doing feels. Always with curses thrown in.
I don’t like, call them a dirty slut or something out of nowhere. I keep it safe.
sexythrowawaythai: My girlfriend kind of started, I was wouldn’t really know how to engage. But I have a lot of practice now we have to do long distance. What I do is tell her what I would do with her if I were there in person. Go in great detail, paint her a picture in her mind.
It felt kinda awkward at first, because I wasn’t used to it. Now I actually like doing it, hearing her orgasm moans is so worth it. Plus as an added bonus, you might find out she likes things you didn’t know about. Because she’s telling you her fantasies.