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I [23M] will most likely be having sex for the first time tonight, but my partner doesn’t know I’m a virgin. Should I tell her?
I recently fell into a new romance with a beautiful girl [24F] who I like very much. We’ve only been talking for a little over a week, but we have amazing chemistry and on our second date (first “real” date minus just getting coffee) she ended up sleeping over. She was hesitant about going all the way so I didn’t push her, although I did ask for it. We had a great time with a few heavy make out sessions, and eventually ended up mostly naked exploring each others bodies. We spent the night cuddling and it was wonderful.
She has been out of town this weekend and gets back tonight and wants to hang out, and judging by our conversations she will most likely be wanting to have sex. She has no idea I am a virgin, and I don’t think I gave her much reason to believe so (minus a little trouble getting her bra off haha). She seemed very into it when she slept over with lots of moaning and heavy breathing, and her panties were completely soaked so I must have been doing something right. My question here is should I tell her I am a virgin beforehand? I only started dating within the past year or so and my virginity is something I’ve been pretty self-conscious about for a while now.
She is a teacher by profession and a total sweetheart, so I know she would be OK with it and probably enjoy teaching me…but I don’t want to ruin the mood or make her too self-conscious if things are already getting hot and heavy… and also it is just embarrassing for me in general. Any advice here would be appreciated, thanks for listening 🙂
fishinful63: Honesty isn’t always the best policy, but here, it is.
stk1985: Don’t assume there will be sex. Just be open to it in case the possibility presents itself. And if you start moving that direction tell her that you think she needs to know something first. She’ll probably love the idea that no one else has been with you, it’ll make the night more special to her.
For you? Stay calm, take it slow, and follow ANY AND ALL instructions she gives you lol
mythrowawaysquared: Don’t bother. Being a virgin isn’t as big of a deal as people seem to make of it. First time sex with a new partner can be awkward or totally awesome be it your first or your thirty-first.
I was with a guy for 7 months before he admitted he had been a virgin – I couldn’t tell by his abilities. So if you if you don’t think it’s a big deal, then don’t make it one. It’s absolutely up to you.
IMM00RTAL: Tell her for sure. Also probably be awkward but who cares just gotta climb back up on that horse and try again.
GunlovinTexn: Yes tell her, that way she can make your first time special and fun. When I lost my virginity to my gf(now wife) I told her I was not a virgin(because i feared she wouldn’t want me and I felt ashamed cause I was a 22 virgin). She believed me and thought I was really experienced(I watched a lot of porn lol). But weeks later I told her I lied and I wasnt a virgin. She was pissed! That I lied to her for a stupid reason and she had trust issue with me because of that. She was also mad because she was like” you should have told me, cause I would have made it special for you”. So my first time could have been a lot more memorable(not saying it wasnt good, which it was).
Siris0: Yeah tell her (although not right before you are about to have sex- might be awkward). She would be more understanding if anything happens and more aware overall.