Eating out question (mostly for men)
Anyways, so before me and my girlfriend have sex I always eat her out for like 5-10 minutes, it’s just easier for her to finish while we actually have sex that way. While I’m eating her out I always lose my erection though… and then I have to do stuff to myself to get it back. I think I’m just really concentrating on eating her out that I stop being turned on? I don’t have a problem getting erections like randomly or when she’s giving me a bj, but what about you guys? Does this happen to you?
fallsdeep404: I often masturbate while I give cunnilingus because it turns me on so much, so I’m erect like 75% of the time. The taste, smell, sensations and her reactions get me hard.
The other times I may be flaccid or semi erect because I’m distracted by giving or in an awkward position, or playing with other parts of her with both hands. Usually one hand is free so I can stroke though.
Don’t worry, it’s totally normal to not be erect 100% of the time.
thelonewolf93: This happens to me all the time. I guess I’m just more focused on her at that moment that I don’t care that my boner is gone. It comes back after I’m done though
-ewha-: Completely normal. I usually ask for a quick bj before PIV if this happens.
The amount of guys that come here to brag about how this doesn’t happen to them with no intention of helping OP is disturbing.
n0mad26: I’m exactly the opposite. I get way harder when going down, such a turn on for me and the pheromones get me going
buttstuffxD69: It depends. If it’s going long (20+ minutes) I will lose it from time to time but nothing a 15-30 second blow job cant fix.
Drop_: I lose my erection too. It’s not about being turned on or not, but about how much focus and attention I have to spend while performing oral.
Aside from that I don’t get much out of it, and mostly I do it for her, and knowing she enjoys it is basically my entire reason for doing it and all the stimulation I get.
Rottified: Completely normal to lose it then. My boyfriend does. He strokes himself till he’s good to go.
alittlebirdy1: This is utterly normal. Tons of men won’t maintain an erection without physical stimulation. It’s not an issue.
SynapticFeedback: This does happen to me, despite being massively turned on by cunnilingus. I believe for me, it has to do with how I normally position myself. She lays on the bed, and I kneel between her legs. With my upper half low on the bed, and my lower half scrunched up, I think it begins to restrict blood flow to my penis. It’s a problem for me, because she loves me to eat her out for a while and then when she’s ready for my cock, she tells me. She’s really in the moment and wants to get filled. It’s sexier to be fully ready to get in then to be like “well hold on.” I think next time, I’m going to pull her to the edge of the bed, and kneel on the floor, so my lower half is upright. Give that a try.
tsotherland: Totally normal. (also normal to not lose it, YMMV) As long as you are enjoying it on whatever level, don’t worry about how your dick is responding. You know what it takes to get your dick going again 🙂 So should she.
Ideas to consider:
Position yourself to keep your cock stimulated while eating her. For example if she’s on back on bed, move her up enough that you can grind on the bed or pillow or something to stay stimulated.
Don’t see oral as a one than the other thing. Eat her a while. Let her suck you a while. Eat her again all in shorter doses so you stay in the game. Might try 69 or just a position where she can reach your cock to play while you’re eating her.
d0ntmindmee: What about 69’ing? Then you’re both having fun.
Playapan: have u considered 69
papretigre: Turns me on. Eating out, that is, not your post.
ScorpioLoverboy: I stay pretty hard because eating pussy is my favorite sex act. So I’m super turned on.