Recently, my wife [34F] and I [36M] have become a lot more adventurous in our sex lives. One of the things that’s come up lately is she really gets turned on by sex in risky places or public places. Now, we’re pretty careful about where we play, but technically we could get caught. TL;DR Any suggestions or recommendations for “public” places for my wife and I to play?
For examples, we were on a Caribbean cruise recently and had a room with a balcony. From looking over ours, it was obvious we could see into the balcony of the people below us. The people above us could obviously see into ours, but that didn’t stop us from having drunk balcony sex at 3 AM one night on the cruise. That was fairly safe because even if we got caught, I’m not really sure we would be in trouble…just maybe a bit embarrassing if the people above us didn’t enjoy the show (as far as I could tell, no one saw us).
We went clothes shopping the other week (big department store) and the changing rooms were empty. She pulled me into the room with her and ended up giving me an amazing blow job. I came and she swallowed it all as we heard other people come into the other changing room stalls.
Then recently, we took the red eye home from California. Nothing like a midnight flight that lands at 7:30 AM eastern time. We flew first class because I knew we both wanted to get some sleep on our way home. We were in the last row of first class with a full wall (not a curtain) behind us to separate first class and coach. There was also two empty seats across the aisle from us. My wife was in a sundress and at one point she got up to use the bathroom before the flight took off. When she came back, I could tell she had something in her hand. When she sat down, she handed me her panties and asked if I’d hold on to them for her.
I could tell she was in a playful mood. About half an hour into the flight the flight attendants were basically done because the expect a lot of people to sleep/rest for this flight. The cabin lights were turned off and no one near us even had their reading lights on. My wife looked at me, pulled up the blanket covering her lap to show me her dress was pulled up and she was already playing with herself. I reached over to help and she pulled the blanket back up. She ended up having a full body orgasm on the plane. She literally was biting her finger (the same hand she’d been using to play before I took over) to keep from letting out a scream as she came.
She wanted to get me off afterwards but I was sitting on the aisle and was worried it was too risky to do much as a guy. She understood but promised to take care of me soon after. She ended up blowing me on the 45 minute drive home from the airport.
But enough stories…anyone have any suggestions for other public or risky places to fool around? I think her airplane orgasm was so big because of the situation and I’m curious if anyone has any similar stories or places to suggest we continue our play.
skahammer: For the sake of thoroughness, I’ll link here the “[Spicing Things Up](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/wiki/index#wiki_spicing_things_up)” heading in the FAQ section on [Sexual Techniques](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/wiki/index#wiki_sexual_techniques). There’s some good information on Public Sex in there.
Bluewildebeest: I think that there is nothing wrong with that, except that you should be careful not to involve people in your sex life, who did not consent to that.
Having sex on your balcony is one thing, because people can look away. Having sex on an airplane is another thing, because people are trapped in there. They can not get away and did not consent to be close to you having sexual contact.
In any case, you should also be especially careful, because public sex can be a sexual offence acoording to the law. And from an ethical point of view, I would like to point out, that I think it would be especially bad, if there is the possibility of children seeing you.
imp_of_santa: I take it you live on the East Coast, but next time you’re in California, up and down the coast, you’ll find abandoned [pill-boxes](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pillbox_(military)) from WWII overlooking the sea. They are just perfect for oral sex: the recipient can stand there and watch the people and the seagulls and the waves, while the giver crouches down, completely out of sight, and does their thing.
cellulitethighs: I personally love public-private risky sex. By “public-private” I mean, in the car, in the dark, which is technically private, but you’re parked in a public space, eg. mall parking lot. Where people can walk by, can see you. Another example, being in a hotel room, dimly lit, with full length windows that overlooks the hotel pool or city street. I imagine having my breasts pressed against the windows while my s/o fucks from the back so he can enjoy the view, both of my body and the city that’s staring back at us. In my terms, public-private means you’re in a private enclosed space, but people can still see you from outside.
My s/o and I were feeling the hots for each other one night after some drinks at a nice bar. I was wearing a really provocative dress, and he wore a nice shirt (which he usually doesn’t) for the night out. I like sucking on his fingers while giving him *the look* in my eyes when I’m getting a little horny. He looks back at me lustfully, and shortly after we find ourselves in a corner outside of a roof top restaurant, going crazy with making out, and I knelt on the floor and whipped out his hard cock, sucking him like it was the last time I’d ever get to do it. He placed me on his lap and fucked me under my dress for a bit until he was about to cum and a few guests were using the back exit to take in the view of the city. They were talking and laughing loudly, not knowing there’s a couple sitting right across, doing something as naughty as this. Obviously I tried to hide by going back down, and I let him finish off in my mouth. It was so much fun. We were both so horny, happy, and satisfied from that night.
The riskiness was super hot. But yes the thought of getting caught is scary as hell. If that ever happens, I’ll just pretend to be drunk & unaware that people can see us. Lol!
TheHotwifeNextDoor: You might try an adult theater. It’s seedy but surprisingly fun. (And, as my wife has pointed out, she feels safer there most clubs/bars, because the code of conduct — no touching with express permission — is clear and rigorously enforced.)
Unless the point is that you guys want the risk of being seen but not actually to be seen.
consciousmama: Dude! Kudos to your vibrant sex life with your wife!
I second the ‘consent’ thing. Not everybody wants to see people having sex. But the threat! The danger of being caught! So hot.
Sounds like you’ve got the right idea so far.
Floridafunones: Elevators. About half the time we’re in an elevator she will go down on me for a few seconds. Depending on what you are wearing it can be very easy, never unzip anything, lol. It’s just a fun joke now.
babyjules35: I work with a guy ive been fwbs for 6 months. Hes the bartender. We close together 3 nights a week. We usually fuck at the restaurant. There are lots of places to do that, there. We usually go in the back room, downstairs. Like the first time i was cleaning the bar floor with s hose and i sprayed him and he was wey, his was realky soaked so he took his shirt off. I was close to him and i walkes off and said u know i did that on purpose to see ur body. We looked at each other and he almost ripped my clothes off. The bar is near a big window, We’ll for 20 mins im naked agst the bar an he are going at it. It was late like 11. But we basically had taken 3 months of built up sexual energy and let go and if someoe saw us they got one hell of a show.
bakingmother: My husband and I have had fitting room sex, car sex and oral, oral and sex on hiking trails, sex in a tent in the middle of a camp ground at night, and many other places
PaulaDeensLube: Hospital parking lots are surprisingly not that risky at night… not many people coming and going.
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