Right up front, let’s clear one thing up…NO two women are the same. This simply means that no matter how much women have in common with each other, every woman is different physiologically, mentally, and emotionally. Why is this important? Because it means while some triggers are common among almost all women, most triggers are different for each woman as well.
With that said, there are a few that virtually all women share. It’s important to know these. It’s MORE important to actually use these. Knowledge is only power if it’s used. What does that mean? Simply put, just by reading this article you will not be bringing out the animal in your woman tonight.
So, let’s bring out that animal, that fire, that passion, like you either never have before, or like you haven’t in years.
One tiny trigger spot that nearly all women have in common, and is an easy one to get to, is the nape of the neck. Some women like it nibbled, some like it kissed, some like it ravaged. You need to know her preference. Once you know, take advantage of this knowledge. More women have been either suddenly turned on by a knowledgeable man because of this spot, or suddenly turned off by a man because of the lack of knowledge of this spot, than I can write about. So, don’t let yourself fall into the category of suddenly turning her off because you do not use this spot. The nape of the neck is where her neck and shoulder meet. Where the body bends. Use your tongue and explore the entire area. When she moans with pleasure, you’ll be glad you did.
Another trigger spot that’s almost as easy to get to is the back of the neck. Most women enjoy getting attention on this area as well. Yet this is an area that’s likely overlooked far more than the nape of the neck. Once you have her melting from paying attention to her nape, make sure you move her hair and her collar and give some extra special attention to the back of her neck. You may even have to turn her around and press the back of her body against yours. That wouldn’t be such a bad thing, would it? Warning…do not jump for sex just because her nice rear is pushed up against you. You still have more seducing to do.
Lastly, but in reality the first and most important spot you will need to pay attention to, in order to progress to the two above…is her lips. You need to perfect your kiss. That cannot be stressed enough. The majority of men have absolutely no idea how to kiss. At all. And this turns a woman off so fast…you may as well flip the light switch to off, all systems down, black out. She will test you with the kiss before letting you go any further. If you do not know how to kiss, most likely you do not know how to have sex. If you do know how to kiss, suddenly her mind runs wild with scenarios wondering what you may be able to do once inside her. That all important kiss, how you touch her lips, how you tease her lips, how gentle you are with her lips, how intense your kiss is, how soft your kiss is. Whether you slobber with your kiss. She pays attention to ALL of these things. You must…MUST know how to treat her delicious lips moment to moment. In other words, you MUST be fully aware of what YOU are doing in the moment AND what she WANTS in the moment.
Find a friend, if at all possible, and just practice the kiss. Your kiss will make you or break you. Remember, ENJOY the kiss. Then you can enjoy everything else!