To any insecure men out there with Small Dick
I have found the most incredible, mind-blowing, head-and-shoulders-above-all-the-rest sex partner. And he has a smaller than average dick, ED, and is overweight.
I thought these were “issues”, I’ll be honest, but they just don’t fucking rate or matter AT ALL when he has the same sexual tastes as me, not one bit. Eats pussy like a madman, I won’t lie, that helps. But it’s not the main draw, even. I would walk over hot sands and sacrifice all other sex forever for just the odd sexual encounter with this dude. Aforementioned issues notwithstanding. So yeah just wanted to say, for any guy who has any sexual insecurities at all, you can still be that mind-blowing, incomparable lover despite any physical limitations. Just be comfortable with your body, comfortable with hers, and go for it like a man possessed. Much love and much luck.
*Edit to say I know this is a very heteronormative post, just assuming here dudes can fill themselves in on dudes’ expectations and experiences of dicks, wanting to offer a lady perspective
sweetncheyrn: Ur post doesnt say exactly ‘what’ makes it great…. super curious!
smartyr228: Okay. But how many women are actually gonna take a flyer on an overweight man with a small dick and ED?
scoobydo0305: I feel the same way! My partner doesn’t have ED but otherwise, we have similar stories. By far the best sex I’ve had.
I_hate_beetroot: As someone who was rejected purely for size multiple times and I am not even small per definition, I think that is the wrong approach or advice for that subject.
Most guys, even with smaller dicks know they can be good lovers and that some women will not care about size or ed.
Unfortunately, most women care and that will lead to rejection and shaming for a lot of these guys. I think its important for them to be mentally prepared for these encounters. How to do that exactly is another discussion. How do you tell someone that he has to go through dozens, maybe hundreds of dates just to find someone he is sexually compatible with? Not even talking about character and emotional compatibility.
But honestly, implying that these guys with smaller dicks and ed can just put themselves out there and have fun is absolutely ridiculous.
reddittbob58: Thanks! Best post I’ve read today!
SmallishBiGuy: What if we’re the gentle type and don’t like being very loud?
Is it his enthusiasm for you that is appealing to you?
I’d like to see what happens after you come out the other side of the NRE phase with him That’s new relationship energy. On average it lasts 6 to 18 months according to the noted anthropologist Helen Fisher. Maybe your satisfaction will remain the same, but maybe not.
I’m in my late 30’s. 4 years ago my penis went from a visible 6″ to barely 5″. A peyronies injury took a half inch in length and foreshaft girth. My pubic fat pad got a little thicker too. Now my penis looks a lot smaller. I’ve had some mental ED because of it.
I’ve had some women ( 4 ) stop dating me this year at least partly due to this, I think. Their desire for me would weaken after I told them about the injury. I was polyamorous for 8 years, and they go into it knowing this. It’s as if they thought I was a stud since a married poly woman chose to date me for 7 years, and I’m fit and somewhat of a leader.
PianoConcertoNo2: Congrats, I just went back and read your dead bedroom story. Hope everything works out!!
Brandyce: Omg you just exactly described the love of my life. 6 years on and we still have incredible sex that I swear gets better and better.
BlondAnorexicSkank: Lmao don’t apologize for being heteronormative.
Chinksta: I’m only insecure about the time I get to trust it in. I don’t know why but I get so excited too early and lasted seconds…. I guess it’s my bad flapping technique of getting off as quickly as possible to not get caught when I was younger…..
CurvedD16: “When he has the same sexual tastes as me”
I think that’s the difficult part. Going through so many relationships trying to find someone who has the same tastes as you, eventually you start to think maybe there’s something wrong with me instead of thinking I just have to keep looking.
Spiderflix: What is ED?
braydenis05: Does a large penis really make that much difference
b_obrien0220: Problems solved, reality isn’t what is was built up 20 years to be, great! I’ll go live now
B3n_Dov3r: Lesbians have a higher rate of climax than hetero sexuals. So its really not down to having a big dick. It’s about passion and lust.
quietguy_6565: Exactly……just bury your insecurities deep down, and force yourself to exude this false self of confidence you don’t have and just hope you can keep that up long enough to form a relationship with someone.
Certainly never bring up your insecurities with someone for validation or support, because then certainly no one will sleep with you.