Your Comprehensive Guide To Getting It On Online
Dating sites serve many purposes – igniting romances, sparking casual hookups, initiating friendships, and, of course, facilitating cyber sex.
Sure, cyber sex comes with some negative (and outdated I might add) connotations, but in reality it’s actually one of the safest ways to experience sexual gratification. Think about it, there’s no physical exchange of touch or bodily fluids yet the experience is still personalized and can prove to be immensely intimate. Similar to sexting, cyber sex is just one of those things many people are already doing, yet, for whatever reason, few are openly talking about it.
Cyber sex allows you to experience an engaging, sexually pleasurable interaction with someone else in a safe and secure digital environment. It often involves video, although it can be done via messaging as well. Once confined to less than secure domains, most with gray areas of privacy and lackluster in partner selection, cyber sex is now a prominent, expansively growing norm, complete with massively populated sites, such as AdultFriendFinder.com, Passion.com, and GetItON.com, all dedicated to being the top hookup sites to help you experience digital sex how, when, and where you want it.
Cyber sex is not an exclusive sexual activity. It’s a safe and smart add-on to your existing sexual routine. In fact, adding cyber sex to your life actually gives you some major sexual advantages.
First of all it’s one of tne of the best ways to experiment with your sexual behavior and go outside your normal boundaries by trying out new concepts, terms, and fetishes to better discover what turns you on. It allows you to live out your fantasies and, as an additional perk, you also get another person’s reactions to your sexual suggestions, allowing you to better identify how someone else may react in person. It’s a time you can let go, in total anonymity if desired, and explore all those deep and dark areas of your sexual urges. Then, once you know what works for you in the world of cyber sex, you can take your newfound sexual discoveries, from words to themes and fetishes that arouse you, and bring such things into your in-personal sexual routine.
Beyond learning more about what you like sexually, cyber sex has another major benefit: It allows you to experience a near perfect sexual encounter every, single, time. Cyber sex is to porn what books are to movies. The same way reading a book allows you to visualize events exactly how you want them (yet movies fill in those details for you), cyber sex allows you to visualize your sexual encounters exactly to your liking, filling in all the juicy details to perfection. Because you’re communicating digitally, cyber sex demands you use some level of imagination and similar to masterbating to porn, when you add your imagination to your sexual experiences you can truly personalize it to your liking. Of course cyber sex is certainly a step up from your typical porn experience, seeing as you are interacting one on one with another person, and this is what makes the experience all the more personal, intense, and stimulating.
Finding A Partner Online
You wouldn’t hook-up with just anyone, so don’t trust your online sex life to any old site. You can essentially find a cyber sex partner on any online dating site, yet there are certain sites that are better equipped to simplify cyber sex. Most of these sites make communicating quickly an easy thing and many have video streaming and recording built into the site. Often more mature dating in nature, these sites naturally attract others looking for digital sexual experiences.
Of course, your privacy is always a concern, so it’s best not to begin your cyber sex experience on just any site. Instead stick to sites that are designed for cyber sex but also have a secure platform and trusted reputation. If you’re ready to dive into the world of cyber sex and experience more gratifying online encounters, check out our list of the best hookup sites designed with cyber sex in mind.
One of many in the network of “Friend Finder” sites XMatch has all the bells and whistles these sites have to offer complete with extensive sections of Search, Live Action, Community, and What’s Hot sections, all providing opportunities to find a partner for cyber sex. Most familiar to many is the Hot or Not function under search, which allows you to quickly cycle through various members to discover one you are interested in. On any friend finder network site, if you’d rather have the site do a little bit more work for you, simply update your Cupid Preferences to dictate the type of match you’re looking to cyber sex with and for the best results set your Content Filter preferences to ‘Everything – All explicit content, including close-ups!’. As another tip to make cyber sex easiest, go to your Chat and IM preferences and set the refresh rate to 10 seconds, the fastest possible, ensuring you can cyber sex at a natural, fast-paced rate. Easily communicate with others by IMing or broadcasting and keep track of everything you need for a quick cyber sex section by tagging your favorite pictures, videos, and members. If you’re not sure what you’re looking for exactly, take advantage of the 100-point purity test to help determine whether you are a “sexual prude or a full-blown hedonist.” With a large selection of both videos and members, XMatch will not disappoint when it comes to fulfilling your cyber sex desires.
From the moment you set up your iHookup account, you can align yourself with other cyber sexting partners simply by selecting you are interested in activities such as discrete romance and online fun. Perfectly designed for visual cyber sexting, the site features large, HD-level clear live chats displaying beautiful women live streaming along with the option to join each webcamer’s private live show. Communicate by texting the webcammer what you are doing or what you would like them to do and experience the optime of visual cyber sexting. Discover member by using the Hot or Not style hookup section or search for others filtering by relationship status, body type, ethnicity, and what type of sexual activity that person is interested in. Conveniently, when you click on any member profile you find you can view your compatibility stats with that member, which is displayed in an easy to read chart format showing your compatibility for On the Streets and In the Sheets. For more visual stimuli, click the live shows or feature shows options, both which take you to cams.com where you can become a member and dictate the action with models on screen in your own private shows. When joining from iHookup you can automatically filter videos you see to the preferences you set such as I want to see blondes or I’m into kinky sex/BDSM. To stimulate your imagination further without leaving the site click on the R-Rated section which features various videos of pornstars living out different fantasies. The site conveniently keeps a log of profiles you’ve recently viewed and allows you to save users you’ve had positive sexual experiences with using the fave section.