Boyfriend’s penis is scarred?
So the whole bottom half of his glans and frenulum are scarred, and he can’t feel anything. He openly resents being circumcised so that’s my only guess as to what happened. He told me a couple days ago that he couldn’t really feel the difference between a handjob or a bj, and that what I had been doing for months was wrong, and he couldn’t feel it. Fair enough, I’ll just focus on where he’ll tell me feels good, but I feel some kind of way about him not telling me about his lack of sensitivity. I did ask about the scars the morning after his first time but he didn’t tell me then. I feel silly and lacking, I suppose.
hakkia: Sounds like he got a botched circumcision. It’s an easy time consuming fix though. He needs to do manual foreskin restoration. Basically this stretches the soon he does have and makes it all more comfortable. I was in a similar boat. My scars left me very bent and my skin very tense to the point it was shiny. I did 5 months and now I’m comfortable but he could go until he legitimately has a restored foreskin.
dacargo: I have the same scar, I was born with my urethra pointing straight down from the tip of my penis, so when I was a baby I had surgery to correct it, which included cauterizing the origin urethra opening, leaving me with scars on my frenulum. I also have sensitivity issues, I finish around 25-35% of the time and never from oral or hand jobs.
__Satyromaniac__: Im circumcised but also have death grip. Never have came from someone else, usually i have to play for a while and it gets soft
sclarfnuts: I have the same issue. Was circumcised for medical reasons when I was ten and my glans has scar tissue. Feeling much from sex is tough.
thricethrowaway: Possibly hypospadias repair? The operation is usually done before a year old so he may not remember if his parents didn’t outright tell him.
Guythings: Personally I think he should clarify what the scars are from. Did he have a disease of some sort?
If you’re sexually active I think you have the right to know.
I doubt it was from circumcision, anybody that would leave scars like that would be a huge deal with lawsuits and stuff.