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People who have high sex drive how do you cope with it?
I’m 19F, had sex before, but rn I do not have a partner since august and it makes me crazy. I can’t masturbate that often bc house is busy all the time. Any advice?
Meg_1998: I masturbate. A LOT.
The only advice I have to cope with it when you can’t masturbate often is to find a hobby, one that is distracting enough that you can take your mind off sex and how aroused you probably are.
_TieMeUp_: Masturbating, video games and exercising were my godsends.
throwaway_10917: Good luck…lol. I have a high sex drive and my wife doesn’t. Not anything close to r/deadbedrooms (we still have sex at least 3 times a week), but I masturbate at least 2 to 3 times a day. I’m 41. My coping is jerking off. But even still, I think about sex constantly. I had hoped it would die down the older I got…but…I think it’s only gotten worse 🙂
sandybeachclam: Can you get some alone time in the shower or something? I grew up in a crowded house but always found a way to sneak a rub.
Oksus69: Lots of masturbating, lots of learning the best porn tags on tumblr, and lots of dramatic sighing.
Masturbate while in the shower or sitting on the toilet.
SamfromRI: Masturbating before bed. And, more of a long-term goal, but things got much better once I found a high-libido partner.
ttrashtrash: They make underwear which has a bullet vibrator built in the general area of the clitoris. You could wear those throughout the day and when you get a few moments alone (at work, while “reading” in your room) you can turn the vibrator on high and get a quick release.
If you have time during those private moments, you can also insert some level weights into your vagina. I have a jade egg that hits my g-spot perfectly in conjunction with an external vibrator, so I use that instead of inserting a usual dildo.
Serocco: You could try to arrange an FWB relationship
LaidBackInCT: I found a very loving and giving wife. Hahaa
She knows I’m a high maintenance sex addict and she takes care of me every day.
bootyandboobs: Jerk off, ALOT! That’s about the only way to do it
xseqter: I go to the gym and i work a lot. but at your age casual hookups should be ok
PMme-YourPussy: Mostly wanking.
uni_who: Wake up, rub. Shower rub. Pee (I’m 25F and I still don’t know why but since 15 the pressure of my pee can almost make me cum). Driving, rub (trying to keep a straight face while driving and having a little bullet vibrator) a very fun game. Before bed, rub. I mean as long as you can keep quiet and don’t necessarily get off on actual penetration you’ll be okay.
itsjustmeandthedog: I die a little everyday I don’t have sex. Masturbating can only go so much.
Pink_182: I work out a lot. It helps somewhat.
RinkanShojo: I mean… I just have a lot of sex when I’m horny. And I’m horny almost all the time.
Come on you’re a girl, get out there and have sex to your heart’s content. When I was 19 I was having sex almost every night, some friday nights I’d go to a hotel with a bunch of guys I hadn’t even met before.
Nothing wrong with sating your high sex drive, you should embrace it.