HELP A GUY OUT
So I’m a 29 yo male and I’ve had sex once and it was… eh. My question to you is how the hell is everyone hooking up?!?!
It seems like everyone and their mother (literally) are having sex on demand, but I’m just sitting here twiddling my thumbs. I’m a fit guy in med school, so it seems like it shouldn’t be too hard right? Even over here, are people actually getting a response to these pm’s? Am I looking down the wrong channel? Is there a hashtag that i’m supposed to use that I’m unaware of?
Any and all comments welcome.
Wandering__Soul__: Tinder. Bumble. OK Cupid. Coffee meets bagel. So many apps. Just download them all and have at it
notoneofyourfans: Sex is out there for the taking, if all you are looking for is sex. If you have a standard then that is your first “barrier”. Tindr, Plenty of Fish, Craigslist, FetLife – they are filled with people who will have sex with you. But it is hit and miss and you have to be safe and not be looking for stimulating conversation or only people in perfect shape. Either that or you have to be an amazing conversationalist and hit the bars and clubs.
foreowetoofun: Your mindset is your problem. Understand that sex is normal and awesome and everyone loves it. A lot of girls would have sex all day every day with even guys who aren’t handsome if society allowed it. So just be nice, and if you like a girl, tell her she’s pretty. So pretty that you’d love to get to know her. All of her.
It’s really not nearly as hard as you think. And looks don’t matter as much as comfort and loyalty do. Worse thing that can happen is a girl rejects you (usually politely if you court her politely). You’ll polite accept her decision (a lot of girls will say no to you Tuesday and fuck your brains out Wednesday, so ALWAYS be polite when rejected), and then just try out the next girl. There are tens of thousands of single girls in every city, at a point it’s just a numbers game. Approach 10 even if you suck you’ll score 1 or 2.