Is foreplay necessary?
Is foreplay something that is necessary for great sex? If you think so, what can you suggest doing for foreplay?
ireasearch: I don’t really like intercourse much. I love foreplay. If the foreplay is great and I cum during it, I may just possibly cum during intercourse.
I like neck nibbles, great sexting, breast play, massage, oral – giving and receiving, fingering, sexy talk, kissing – great kissing makes sex so much better, caressing and grinding.
Coidzor: For 99% of people, yes.
>If you think so, what can you suggest doing for foreplay?
If you don’t know what foreplay entails, I suggest starting with kissing.
[Here’s a decent thread that can help to guide you if you’re a heterosexual man.](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/10mx6z/for_guys_who_are_insecure_in_bed_here_is_how_to/)
backrubbing: Not 100% of the time, but damn near close to that number.
cumaslube: Only if you wan’t sex to be amazing.
mistermoob: Yes, kiss, undress each other, touch each other, touch each others private parts and make sure you’re both mentally aroused and physically ready.
good-at-tetris-: Yes. But there are times when its acceptable to skip. From my experience it’s more important for a woman than a man.
meltallica82: Absolutely. It’s a must for me. Oral is my foreplay favourite.
AtwixttheWillows: I mean, its not exactly necessary if both people are already turned on by the thought and anticipation of getting it on..
But yes, its mostly necessary.
wetmilfy: Not always, we love having quickies… plus I’m wet for him all the time naturally
Electric_Eff: YES. A million times yes. The absolute worst sex I’ve had has been from guys that give a 2.5 second long, gross, sloppy kiss and then just stick it right in. It makes you feel more like a human jizz sock than a sex partner honestly.
On the other hand, every time i’ve been with a guy or girl that puts time and effort into foreplay, it’s always been an incredible experience. I get off on it before we even get to the sex, I get super wet, it’s way more intimate, and the multiple orgasms I have when we do get to the sex are super intense and leave me completely sex-drunk. It’s just a lot more fun in general to draw things out instead of rushing into it and makes you feel way closer to your partner.