What did your partner do that shocked you one day?
oiseaudefeu_: I was half asleep and he slipped a finger inside me from behind, when I realised that sex was on the cards I rolled on my back and started to kiss him, he held me down and just fingered me and rubbed my clit with the other hand while holding deep eye contact with me until I came. Nobody has ever done that to me before, and it was the first time I’ve ever been able to come without doing anything myself. It was unbelievably hot.
Emack76: On our fifth anniversary my wife (now of 20+ years), while at dinner, asked if we could take home the cute waitress. I nearly fell out of my seat in shock.
What made it so shocking was that she was a very jealous woman who still had a lot of baggage from her last relationship, which included trust issues. She was also not very communicative about sex in general. It embarrassed her terribly.
We didn’t take that lady home, but it opened a whole new chapter in our marriage.
nrdgrrrl_taco: In the middle of sex, she got up, left the room. She went downstairs and started watching Netflix and slept the night on the couch, leaving me alone in bed.
It wasn’t a _good_ kind of shock 🙁 (I broke up with her a few weeks later)
PMme-YourPussy: An ex who wasn’t interested in Anal once rolled over mid session and asked for it up the arse. Completely unexpected at the time.
_trinidad_: I walked into the bedroom because I couldn’t find her when I got home and she had tied herself up on the bed. Full on BDSM stuff. All four limbs restrained. Ball gag, nipple clamps, blindfold. We were already doing a lot of stuff along those lines but it was a total shock. To this day I have no idea how she accomplished it
Littlebigman57: She finally put her finger up my butt.
mikecg2: My x gf said her sister wanted me, and if i wanted to hook up with her i could. That was hot. She was older but hotter and better in bed. I was like no way at first but she was serious.
uk_ex: She asked me if she could go to bed with our best friend.
We had been chatting about it for some time, and amazingly I wanted her to do it with him, but I never ever expected my lovely vanilla sex, convent educated, church going, conservative little wife to actually pluck up the courage to actually ask me.
We set some rules around what we wanted and didn’t want, and she went for it the next evening. What followed was 7 years of sexual bliss as our love life reached new levels whilst she was having regular sex with him.
Rumpia: My SO decided that he was going to dedicate his “last thrust” to a mutual friend of ours just as he orgasmed and just before mine. Needless to say the shock completely froze me up and I didn’t get an orgasm!
Edit: a typo.
AnnaEugenia: He asked to take pictures.
Typically I’m the one pushing for freaky stuff. Mind blown, very much agreed.
beccamoo518: He said we could film ourselves and put it up on pornhub to see what people thought.
roconfused: We were snuggling and he was asleep, completely asleep. I was drifting there myself when suddenly he just started to finger me. Felt fucking amazing. Then he just went right back to sleep. In the morning he asked if it actually happened because yep… He fingered me completely in his sleep.
We still laugh about it but it hasn’t happened again.
Allyndrixx: So, I realize not everyone would be okay with this, but it was great for me.
Husband and I have kids, and he was my first. Not a lot of experience for me, and he had done a lot of experimenting with a long term girlfriend before me. Sometimes I wish it was more exciting. One night, we were having sex on the couch, which is pretty exotic for us, and he started to choke me. Not hard, but some pressure. I LOVED it. I have submissive tendencies, so him doing that and the control and everything about it was amazing. I love it every time he does it, though we’ve done a little talking and researching safe methods since then.
dudeman1345: She asked me to eat her ass after constatly telling me she isn’t into butt stuff.
MGPythagoras: What is pronebone?
buffystakeded: While giving me a blowjob, she moved down and started licking my asshole. It was pretty amazing.
MissChief77: Started out playing Call of Duty. CoD turned into a stripping game. Ended up with a whipped cream in my ass.
DiscardPileLondon: Her husband wasn’t up in the morning when he should be (a work day), so she went to get him out of bed. Came back and told me she’d found him wanking himself over our sex noises *rolls eyes