Model Yi-ying Lai: ‘From The Studio To The Hotel’ by Alessio Cocchi for NAKID Mag (October) 2017
Photographer Alessio Cocchi has always wanted to shoot with model Yi-ying Lai, and now in this exclusive editorial for NAKID the two have created a romantically mesmerizing visual story together. Yi-ying Lai is an artist who works in graphic arts and lives in Taipei, Taiwan. Her shy character hides a sexy bomb.
Women who have BFs or SOs with small penises, do you ever feel you’re missing out?
I saw this question asked about small boobs and thought it would be interesting to see what the answer is for penises.
introit: TBH, since I learned about micro penises, I’ve been secretly fascinated by them.
My SO’s average. I don’t feel like I’m missing out on anything, except for being able to touch it more.
ThunderBunsMcGee: I’ve been with a couple guys with micro penises and I could definitely tell the difference but it still felt really good. My current boyfriend is slightly below average in size and I’ve never had sex this amazing before. It’s really about positions that work and hitting the right spots.
p1105: I’ve had about ~60-70 male partners in my life so I’ve seen and experienced a pretty wide spread of penises. I’m also lucky enough to have a non-picky vagina – meaning I can have multiple orgasms with a 3-4 inch penis (if it can reach my gspot, we’re good!) and I also enjoy having my cervix pounded (never tapped out on a big dick!) – so I feel pretty qualified to answer this question since neither option is painful/dissatisfying for me.
All that being said: if I was monogamously dating someone with a small penis and they 100% refused to use dildos, cock sheaths, butt plugs, or similar toys, or their hands were too big to comfortably fist me: yes, I would feel like I was missing out. There are certain sensations that can only be achieved by penetration with a large object, and I would really, really miss those sensations if I was monogamous with someone whose penis didn’t give me those sensations. But if the person I was with was willing to give me those sensations every now and then with his hands or with toys, I would not remotely feel like I was missing out on satisfying PIV sex.
I’m currently dating 2 people. One is a super stereotypical alpha – huge dick, muscular, super dominant. The other is a bisexual go go dancer with a smaller than average penis (about 4-4.5 erect and fairly thin). Sex with both of them is so amazing I honestly couldn’t rank them if I tried and both of them make me squirt. If I was dating the second guy monogamously, I would eventually ask him to incorporate more toys and possibly fisting into our play, because I would start to miss that “stretched/filled” feeling and the sensations that come with it. But that doesn’t mean I’d be missing the other guy’s dick specifically – hell, someone who *doesn’t have a penis at all* could still give me those sensations if they were creative and willing to bring in reinforcements.
I know this is an area of a lot of insecurity for a lot of men and it’s not always logical. But I’m being 100% honest: a guy with a small dick isn’t even close to a deal breaker, but a guy who’s so insecure about his small dick that he flat-out refuses to explore my body in other ways definitely is.