Men, what do you think when women boldly ask you to sleep with them?
Guys, what do you think when women texted and asked you if you want to hook up with them? Excited? Intimidating? Would you say yes (excluding taken guys)? Did you get asked often?
I remember when I first boldly asked my guy friend if he wanted to hookup with me and he was so surprised. We ended up fucking. After that, we did hook up for other times too lol.
wwoteloww: “What ? Why ? Is this a joke ?”
Would be my answer.
Coidzor: Depends on the context.
In this particular instance, since they’re able to text me to do that, I probably know them well enough to have some idea of what I think of them and whether I think they’re attractive. There’s pretty decent odds that since I know them, I’ll say yes if I think they’re not just fucking with me.
So in this scenario I’d be thinking either A. “[We gon’ frick](https://imgur.com/gallery/MqfvAx7)”, B. “Oh god, why is she trying to fuck with me like that,” or C. “Oh god, now I have to reject her.” In rough order of the likelihood of which I’d have those thoughts.
vegasguy12345: I enjoy her being open and telling me what she wants and expects. It’s very exciting, always!!
KazanTheMan: Unless there was some tension between us already, it would take a lot of convincing to make me believe it wasn’t a joke or some attempt to get something from me.
Crimson_Zebra: If a girl were to say that, “me? You’re joking right?”
mono99ca: There is nothing more appealing and sexy to me than that of a woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to ask or go for it. I have never refused that invitation.
Clapping_Noise: I would like and agree depending on the girl.
talkinboutfuckin: I feel excited and desired.
foxhound525: Alert klaxons would be blaring. Either she thinks I’m going to fall for some malicious trick (I’ve known lots of girls who enjoy that sort of thing) or she wants something from me and thinks this is how she will get it. If I didn’t know her very well I wouldn’t be able to overcome scepticism. My trust is earned and if I don’t trust you I sure as hell ain’t sleeping with you.
Foxrich: Would probably think it would be some kind of trick to humiliate me
PassTheMarsupial: It wouldn’t, like, trick me into wanting to have sex with somebody I wouldn’t otherwise have sex with – it’s not magic – but otherwise, cool.
I guess somebody inexperienced *could* be intimidated by this…? No judgement, everybody starts out inexperienced. But plenty of inexperienced guys would jump at the chance, so go ahead.
8livesdown: – No one has ever said that to me…
– I’ve never said it to anyone
For me, the question feels a tad hypothetical… The sort of thing that’s fun to discuss on Reddit, but infrequent in the real world.
Durzo_Blintt: Probably wouldn’t believe it unless we were fucking already. I’m serious too.
SomewhatThoughtOut: When I was single I would be down, for sure. I’m married now and I’d have to get the ok from my wife (which she has done). The only people I would 100% turn down would be clients (I’m a photographer who does a lot of boudoir and fetish work) or their guests if I’m shooting a wedding.
Girls who are up front are usually great in bed and are awesome in that that they’ve never seen it as a gateway into a monogamous relationship.
BeardsuptheWazoo: If I’m attracted to her, and trust her, it’s on. Bold and confident is crazy attractive in someone you’re into.
vandarknight: Most men like the chase, so just give them hints and don’t ask straight away. I thought women are good at it.