Does anyone share my kink? Or am I just strange?!
First time posting so please bare with me!
I (23F) get like ridiculously turned on by discussing mine and my husband’s sex life with our friends. I love the idea of other people knowing we’re going to have/have had sex!
I recently sent him a message saying about my sexy time plans for the following evening (I like to give him something to look forward to especially when we’re out all day and i can give him the lustful look without him being able to do anything lol)
He spends a lot of time online gaming and happened to be at the time, he temporarily left the game to read my message and smoke and when he came back his friends wanted to know why he’d randomly disappeared off without much explanation, so he sent them the message I’d sent him!! And then he suffered an evening of being wound up about having to wait until the next day. (He knows I won’t care about him sharing stuff like that, we very openly talk about sex and everything that goes with it!). Anyway, he told me last night during pillow talk, after more sex, and if I didn’t have to get up with our kids this morning I would of jumped him I swear!!
I don’t think he realises what it does to me! I’m going to bring it up later. This isn’t the first time that I’ve been a horny mess from discussing our sexy time plans with others, this is just the most recent.
Is this like a normal thing that gets other people all het up?! Or am I just strange lol!! I’ve tried searching around for other stories of people who are the same, but I haven’t found anything.
Itskel: Yup, you’re weird.
No, I’m kidding. I do the same thing. I’d kill for a couple friend that we can share that stuff with. I keep trying to get my husband to make friends since I’m a sahm, lol.
pokerbrowni: It’s certainly not a “way out there” sort of kink. You are just a fledgling exhibitionist. Try having sex somewhere where you are visible and see what that does to you! But stick with places where you can plead ignorance at first, like the balcony of a hotel. Or at least make sure you have a good “get-away” plan.
idiosyncracies: Nope, not weird. Massive turn on for me just to be openly enjoyed in front of friends as a sexual being.
slizzleP: My girlfriend is really into discussing our sex lives. I had no idea until her friends had mentioned it. Guys love it too ( at least I do) just something extremely sexy knowing She is more than satisfied. Enough to brag to her friends about it is a giant ego boost. I tell my friends just not in the same detail.
Saijin-Khody: I think you are a normal hot woman, knowing what you do turns on others is a real turn on to many. Does your “pillow talk” involve how interested the people you tell stories to get?
Areas this interest of yours might lead to:
Either of you showing sexy pics to certain friends
Sharing detailed stories with certain friends, then describing there reactions during love making.
If the top two add to your pleasure, you two might consider dabbling in the swing lifestyle. Meeting others interested in sex and sharing there sexuality with others. Even if you don’t actually do anything with anyone at this time, meeting other likeminded individuals and talking about your sex life might be a turn on for the both of you.
slizzleP: When me and my fiancé first started dating she would send my nudes to her friends. Is that weird?
uk_ex: You are strange, and so am I …… I’d love to do that but my wife won’t talk much, only what SHE wants to talk about (which isn’t sex).
That would make me so horny, knowing that someone else knows what we are doing or are about to do.
fa_storya: I have this exibitionist side as well, even talking about it on reddit is fun. But my Bf is super private about sex, so I don’t think it would ever happen.